Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-11

DOING GOOD
He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own. - Confucius

DOUBT
In all affairs it's a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted. - Bertrand Russell

DREAMS
If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. - Henry David Thoreau

To accomplish great things, we must dream as well as act. - Anatole France

Climb every mountain,
Ford every stream,
Follow every rainbow,
Till you find your dream. - From "Climb Ev'ry Mountain," (The Sound of Music)

All our dreams can come true—if we have the courage to pursue them. - Walt Disney

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain

"Dream is not what you see in sleep, dream is the thing which does not let you sleep." - President A.P.J. Abdul Kalam

Monday, October 27, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-10

DIPLOMACY
You’ve got to find some way of saying it without saying it. - Duke Ellington

Don't ever slam the door; you might want to go back. - Don Herold

Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. - Benjamin Franklin

If you wouldn’t write it and sign it, don’t say it.

A diplomat is someone who can tell you to go to hell in such a way that you look forward to the trip. - Cashie Stinnett

DISCERNMENT
Weigh the meaning and look not at the words. - Ben Jonson

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

As I grow older I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do. - Andrew Carnegie

DISCIPLINE
Do not consider painful what is good for you. - Euripides

Make it a point to do something every day that you don't want to do. This is the golden rule for acquiring the habit of doing your duty without pain. - Mark Twain

Self-discipline is the willingness to perform the acts that are beneficial to us that—for whatever reason—we don’t want to perform. - John McCormack

Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do when it ought to be done whether you like it or not. It is the first lesson that ought to be learned and however early a person’s training begins, it is probably the last lesson a person learns thoroughly. - Thomas Huxley

It is one of the strange ironies of this strange life that those who work the hardest, who subject themselves to the strictest discipline, who give up certain pleasurable things in order to achieve a goal, are the happiest men. When you see 20 or 30 men line up for a distance race in some meet, don't pity them, don't feel sorry for them. Better envy them instead. - Brutus Hamilton

Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments - Jim Rohn

I never could have done without the habits of punctuality, order, and diligence . . . the determination to concentrate myself on one subject at a time. - Charles Dickens

DOING
I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand. - Confucius

You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do. - Henry Ford

Doing something is different from thinking about doing something; it is more difficult because it requires more discipline and courage. - Nicholas Pratt

Doing something the first time is very hard.
Doing it the second time is easier.
Doing it the third time is easier still.
With persistence, eventually doing it becomes second nature. - Nicholas Pratt

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-9

DECISION
Whenever you’re called on to make up your mind,
And you’re hampered by not having any,
The simplest way to solve the dilemma you’ll find,
Is simply by flipping a penny.
No, not so that chance shall decide the affair,
As you’re passively standing there moping.
But as soon as the penny is up in the air,
You’ll suddenly know what you’re hoping. - Piet Hein, Grooks

“Sir, what is the secret of your success?” a reporter asked a bank president.
“Two words.”
“And, sir, what are they?”
“Right decisions.”
“And how do you make the right decisions?”
“One word.”
“And, sir, what is it?”
“Experience.”
“And how do you get experience?”
“Two words.”
“And, sir, what are they.”
“Wrong decisions.”

Make big decisions in the calm. - Dwight D. Eisenhower

DELEGATION
The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraining enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it. - Theodore Roosevelt

Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity. - George S. Patton, Jr.


DESIRE
You can have anything in this world you want, if you want it badly enough and you’re willing to pay the price. - Mary Kay Ash

Games are generally won by the boys with the greatest desire. - Paul Bear Bryant

DESTINY
Man is man because he is free to operate within the framework of his destiny. He is free to deliberate, to make decisions, and to chose between alternatives. - Martin Luther King

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. - William Jennings Bryan

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-8

CONVERSATION
Take as many half minutes as you can get, but never talk more than half a minute without pausing and giving others an opportunity to strike in. One of the best rules in conversation is, never to say a thing which any of the company can reasonably wish had been left unsaid. - Jonathan Swift

COUNCIL
Never take the advice of someone who has not had your kind of trouble. - Siney J. Harris

Never trust the advice of a man in difficulties. - Aesop

Never give advice unless asked. - German proverb

COUNTRY
A man's feet should be planted in his country, but his eyes should survey the world. - George Santayana

COURAGE
Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear. - Ambrose Redmoon

You cannot run away from a weakness; you must sometime fight it out or perish. And if that be so, why not now, and where you stand? - Robert Louis Stevenson

Courage is resistance to fear. - Mark Twain

Without courage, all other virtues lose their meaning. - Winston Churchill

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

COURTESY/PROPRIETY
When you are in Rome live in the Roman style; when you are elsewhere live as they live elsewhere. - Saint Ambrose

CREATIVITY
Creativity can solve almost any problem. The creative act, the defeat of habit by originality, overcomes everything. - George Lois

CRITICISM
Rest satisfied with doing well, and leave others to talk of you as they please. - Pythgoras


DANGER
If you are out of trouble, watch for danger. - Sophocles

DARING
Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary. - Sir Cecil Beaton

To dare is to lose one's footing momentarily; Not to dare is to lose oneself. - Soren Kierkegaard

DECISIONS
In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing that you can do is nothing. - Theodore Roosevelt

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-7

COMMUNICATION
The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said. - Peter F. Drucker

Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the people. - William Butler Yeates

COMPLIMENTS
Learn how to pay compliments. Start with the members of your family, and you will find it will become easier later in life to compliment others. It's a great asset. - Letitia Baldrige

Don't tell a woman she's pretty; tell her there's no other woman like her, and all roads will be open to you. - Jules Renard

CONDUCT
Be neither too remote nor too familiar. - Charles, Prince of Wales

Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none. - Benjamin Franklin

CONFIDENCE
It is best to act with confidence, no matter how little right you have to it. - Lillian Hellman

Never let the fear of striking out get in your way. - George Herman

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. - Eleanor Roosevelt

CONTENTION
The best armor is to keep out of range. - Italian proverb

Above all things, never be afraid. The enemy who forces you to retreat is himself afraid of you at that very moment. - Andre Maurois

Don't hit at all if it is honorably possible to avoid hitting; but never hit soft! - Theodore Roosevelt

Keep your broken arm inside your sleeve. - Chinese proverb

CONTENTMENT
Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another. - Marquis de Condorcet

Be content with your lot; one cannot be first in everything. - Aesop

He who is content with little has everything.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-6

CHANGE
You have to really want to change to make a change. - Nicholas Pratt

You have to do things differently to get different results. - Nicholas Pratt

All conditions, good or bad, are temporary. - Nicholas Pratt

People can change but rarely do. - Nicholas Pratt

CHARACTER
A man's character is his fate. - Heraclitus

The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good. - Ann Landers

The true test of civilization is, not the census, nor the size of cities, nor the crops but the kind of man that the country turns out - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Nothing is more significant of men's character than what they find laughable. - Johann Wolfgang Goethe

Sow a thought, reap an act;
Sow an act, reap a habit;
Sow a habit, reap a character:
Sow a character, reap a destiny. - Anonymous

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing. - Abraham Lincoln

A truly successful personality knows how to overcome the past, use the present, and prepare for the future—but unless we can first surmount the past, we cannot effectively cope with either the present or the future. - Sydney J. Harris

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are. - John Wooden

CHARM
Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves. - Henri Frédéric Amiel

CHEMISTRY
The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. - Carl Gustav Jung.

CHOICE
Look at your choices, pick the best one, then go to work with all your heart. - Pat Riley

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Values... What Values???

Recently high-school values clarification class conducted by a teacher in Teaneck, New Jersey. A girl in the class had found a purse containing $1,000 and returned it to its owner. The teacher asked for the class's reaction. Every single one of her fellow students concluded the girl had been foolish. Most of the students contended that if someone was careless, they should be punished. When the teacher was asked what he said to the students, he responded, "Well, of course, I didn't say anything. If I come from the position of what is right and what is wrong, then I'm not their counsellor. I can't impose my views."

If we do not learn values from our parents and teachers, who do we learn them from? And when they don't teach us values, we pick them up by default from television and other such undesirable sources. No wonder society gets messed up. The teacher such as in the example above is not only irresponsible with distorted values but does not deserve to be teaching our kids.

Through generations, some values have crystallized as eternal and universal, which give us our clear “do’s and don’ts”.

... But today there is a concept of relative values and relative principles. Today’s concept of relative values says, “Everything is OK. What’s right for me, may not be right for you.”

If values are subjective and they keep changing from person to person and situation-to-situation, then they are not values at all. or are they???

Friday, October 17, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-5

BELIEF
"Your biggest challenge isn't someone else. It's the ache in your lungs and the burning in your legs, and the voice inside you that yells 'CAN'T", but you don't listen. You just push harder. And then you hear the voice whisper 'can'. And you discover that the person you thought you were is no match for the one you really are." - Unknown

When you believe and think I can, you activate your motivation, commitment, confidence, concentration, and excitement, all of which relate directly to achievement. - Jerry Lynch

The key to success is to determine your goal and then act as if it were impossible to fail—and it shall be! - Dorothea Brande

BOLDNESS
You've got to be brave and you've got to be bold. Brave enough to take your chance on your own discriminations—what's right and what's wrong, what's good and what's bad. - Robert Frost

What you can do, or dream you can, begin it; Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. - Goethe

Be bold and mighty powers will come to your aid. - Basil King

BOOKS
Learn to love good books. There are treasures in books that all the money of the world cannot buy, but that the poorest laborer can have for nothing. - Robert G. Ingersoll

Be as careful of the books you read, as of the company you keep; for your habits and character will be as much influenced by the former as by the latter. - Paxton Hood

BOREDOM/EXCITEMENT
Think excitement, talk excitement, act out excitement, and you are bound to become an excited person. Life will take on a new zest, deeper interest and greater meaning. You can think, talk, and act yourself into dullness or into monotony or into unhappiness. By the same process you can build up inspiration, excitement, and a surging depth of joy. - Norman Vincent Peale

BUSINESS
Don't open a shop unless you know how to smile. - Jewish proverb

The secret of business is to know something that nobody else knows. - Aristotle Onasis

CAPABILITY
If you would be remembered, do one thing superbly well. - Saunders Norvell

Whenever you are asked if you can do a job, tell 'em, "Certainly I can!" Then get busy and find out how to do it. - Theodore Roosevelt

CAREER
Don't choose a profession just for money. Choose a profession as you would choose a wife—for love and for money. - John Huston

CAUTION
Measure a twice times and cut once. - Turkish proverb

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Greed!!...Where does it ends

There is a story about a wealthy farmer who was once offered all the land he could walk
on in a day, provided he came back by sundown to the point where he started. To get a
new start, early the next morning the farmer started covering ground quickly because he
wanted to get as much land as he could. Even though he was tired, he kept going all
afternoon because he didn't want to miss this once in a lifetime opportunity to gain more
wealth.

Late in the afternoon he realized the condition he had to fulfil to get the land was to get
back to the starting point by sundown. His greed had gotten him far enough. He started
his return journey, keeping an eye on how close he was to sundown. The closer it got to
sundown, the faster he ran. He was exhausted, out of breath and pushed himself beyond
the point of endurance. He collapsed upon reaching the starting point and died. He did
make it before sundown. He was buried and all the land he needed was a small plot.
There is a lot of truth in this story and a lesson to be learned. Whether the farmer was
wealthy or not, any greedy person would have ended the same way.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-4

ATTITUDE
If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call fourth its riches. - Rainer Maria Rilke

Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude toward it, for that determines our success or failure. - Norman Vincent Peale

The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitude of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.

BEGINNINGS
Dare to be wise; begin! He who postpones the hour of living rightly is like the rustic who waits for the river to run out before he crosses. - Horace

Omnium rerum principia parva sunt." [Everything has a small beginning.] - Marcus Tullius Cicero

The greatest achievements were at first and for a time dreams. The oak sleeps in the acorn. - James Allen

The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one. - Mark Twain

BEHAVIOR
So live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!" - Victor E. Frankl

BELIEF
Whether you think you can or think you can't—you are right. - Henry Ford

Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. - William James

Belief that a problem can be solved is essential to its solution. - Nicholas Pratt

Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself. - Robert Collier

If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you would like to win but think you can’t,
It’s almost certain that you won’t.
Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger woman or man,
But sooner or later, those who win
Are those who think they can.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Choices

If live gives us rocks, don't sit back and blame life for that.
At every turn of our life, it gives us choices which we fail to recognise.

So when life gives you rocks,
It's still your choice whether to build a wall or to build a bridge.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-3

ANSWERING
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

ANXIETY
Do not . . . hope wholly to reason away your troubles; do not feed them with attention, and they will die imperceptibly away. Fix your thoughts upon your business, fill your intervals with company, and sunshine will again break in upon your mind. - Samuel Johnson

APPEARANCE
Keep up appearances; The world will give the credit for the rest. - Charles Churchill

Beware so long as you live, of judging people by appearances.
- La Fontaine
Be not deceived with the first appearance of things, for show is not substance. - English proverb

APPRAISAL
It's no use trying to sum people up. One must follow hints, not exactly what is said, nor yet entirely what is done. - Virginia Woolf

Let us take men as they are, not as they ought to be. - Franz Schubert

If you want to judge a man, take a look at his enemies. - Harry Golden

I usually make up my mind about a man in ten seconds, and I rarely change it. - Margaret Thatcher

ARGUMENT
Audi partem alterum.[Hear the other side] - Saint Augustine

ASKING/SEEKING
He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever. - Chinese proverb

Ask, and it shall be given you;
Seek, and ye shall find;
Knock, and it shall be opened unto you;
For every one that asketh receiveth;
And he that seeketh findeth;
And to him that knocketh it shall be opened. - Jesus of Nazareth

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Pessimists....Some people always look at the negative side

Robert Fulton invented the steamboat. On the banks of the Hudson River he was
displaying his new invention. The pessimists and the skeptics were gathered around to
observe. They commented that it would never start. Lo and behold, it did. As it made its
way down the river, the pessimists who said it would never go, started shouting that it
would never stop. What an attitude!

Another one....

There was a hunter who bought a bird dog, the only one of its kind in the world. That
could walk on water . He couldn't believe his eyes when he saw this miracle. At the
same time, he was very pleased that he could show off his new acquisition to his friends.
He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a few ducks and the
man ordered his dog to run and fetch the birds. All day -long, the dog ran on water and
kept fetching the birds. The owner was expecting a comment or a compliment about his
amazing dog, but never got one. As they were returning home, he asked his friend if he had noticed anything unusual about his dog. The friend replied, "Yes, in fact, I did notice
something unusual. Your dog can't swim.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-2

ADVICE
Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself. - Cicero

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. - Erica Jong

Seek advice from those only whom you deem competent to give it, and then you need not hesitate to follow it. Receive good advice gracefully, asked or unasked. - Charles Simmons

Write down the advice of him who loves you, though you like it not at present. - English proverb

Don't give cherries to a pig; don't give advice to a fool. - Irish proverb

AFFECTION
Talk not of wasted affection! Affection never was wasted. . . . - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

AGE
Every man desires to live long, but no man wishes to be old. - Jonathon Swift

Youth is not entirely a time of life; it is a state of mind. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years. People grow old by deserting their ideals. You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear; as young as your hope, as old as your despair. In the central place of every heart, there is a recording chamber; so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, and courage, so long are you young. - Douglas Mac Arthur

AIM
Thomas Carlyle was once talking to a young friend, and asked him what his aim in life was. The young man replied that he had none. "Get one, then, and get it quick," said Carlyle, sharply. "Make something your specialty. Life is a very uncertain affair. Knowing a little about five hundred things won't do us much good. We must be able to do something well, that our work will be needed and valuable." - Kate L. Gates

Make no little plans; they have no magic to stir men's blood....Make big plans, aim high in hope and work. - Daniel H. Burnham

AMBITION
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too, can become great. - Mark Twain

First, you must be ambitious, but you must not be so nakedly aggressive that your fellow workers rise up and destroy you. "Tout soldat porte dans sa giberne le baton de marechal." [Every soldier has a marshal's baton in his knapsack.] Yes, but don't let it stick out. - David M. Ogilvy

Children, you must remember something. A man without ambition is dead. A man with ambition but no love is dead. A man with ambition and love for his blessings here on earth is ever so alive. Having been alive, it won't be so hard in the end to lie down and rest. - Pearl Bailey

ANGER
Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy. - Aristotle, The Nichomachean Ethics

Never forget what a man says to you when he is angry. - Henry Ward Beecher

When anger rises, think of the consequences. - Confucius

Never do anything when you are in a temper, for you will do everything wrong. - Baltasar Gracian

Anger is what arouses you to challenge a situation. Aim to use it to improve things. Often, with it, you can change things. - Walter McQuade and Anna Aikman

Friday, October 10, 2008

Looking for Gold

As a young Scots boy, Andrew Carnegie came to America and started doing odd jobs.
He ended up as one of the largest steel manufacturers in the United States.At one time he had 43 millionaires working for him.

Several decades ago, a million dollars used to be a lot of money; even today it is a lot of money.
Someone asked Mr. Carnegie how he dealt with people?

Andrew Carnegie replied, "Dealing with people is like digging gold: When you go digging for an ounce of gold, you have to move tons of dirt to get an ounce of gold. But when you go digging, you don't go looking for the dirt, you go looking
for the gold."

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Timeless Quotes Part-1

ABSENCE

Absence diminishes little passions and increases great ones, just as the wind blows out a candle and fans a fire. - François de La Rouchefoucauld

ACCIDENT

I never did anything worth doing by accident, nor did any of my inventions come by accident. - Thomas Edison

ACHIEVEMENT

Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things. - Frank A. Clark

You may be disappointed if you fail but you are doomed if you don't try. - Beverly Sills

Let our children grow tall and some taller than others if they have it in them to do so. - Margaret Thatcher

Don't measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability. - John Wooden

ACTION
Ideas are a dime a dozen. People who put them into action are priceless. - Unknown

Action is the basis of competition, execution, and achievement. - Nicholas Pratt

ADAPTATION
If you live in the river you should make friends with the crocodile. - Indian proverb

You must shift your sail with the wind. - Italian proverb

If the wind will not serve, take to the oars. - Latin proverb

ADVERSITY
Every adversity contains within it the seed of an equivalent or greater good. - Princess of Serendip

When one door of happiness closes another door opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. - Hellen Keller

Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater one. Possession pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it. - William Hazlitt

Never give up. Never, never, never, never give up. - Winston Churchill

He who has never failed somewhere, that man cannot be great. - Herman Melville

Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside them was superior to circumstance. - Bruce Barton

Give advice; if people don't listen, let adversity teach them. - Ethiopian proverb